"If They Are Presently Without A Moirail You Could Perhaps Introduce Them To Someone Or Convince Them To Join A Club Or Campus Organization Where They Are Likely To Find Someone On Their Own"
And suddenly they think you're trying to get them out of the way to spend less time with their matesprit.
Point, though this *would* be after telling them you're not stealing their matesprit and trying to set them up on a romantic date with them and stuff. It might be better if the matesprit got their matesprit to a club, you're right. The matesprit or the letter writer moirail could accompany them there if jealousy is that much of a problem.
However, ultimately, (and assuming everyone else is telling the truth and not outrageously flirting), the jealousy issue rests with the person who is jealous, and they might be jealous no matter who suggests anything. They're already jealous of the moirails hanging out *now*, without going to a club. They have to learn to get over it and believe their own matesprit when they tell them things, or ruin their own relationships due to overpossessiveness. Tiptoeing around who is spending extra time with who to spare them getting mad is not going to help that issue, and it is a symptom of spousal abuse.
This is me thinking about your comment, by the way, not a personal attack. I'm very happy that you're contemplating our advice and we happily take discussion and criticism and don't consider ourselves perfect (thus the disclaimer :P). Thank you for the kudos love :) and for discussing quadrants with us.
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eccentricStyle (Megafire) on Chapter 2 Wed 28 Sep 2011 02:37PM UTC
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